From 'In Defense of Purity'

"There are certain modern theories which exaggerate beyond all measure the prt played by sex, while nevertheless missing its deeper significance, and venture the absurd thesis that love is a sublimation of the sex instinct. Such a doctrine betrays, in the first place, complete failure to understand the spiritual structure of the personalitY, and second, an entire misapprehension of the nature of love, the supreme actuation of the spirit."
-Von Hildebrand

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